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He Masturbated A Great Deal During Ramadaan – What Should He Do?
EsinIslam
Ramadan
The Awqaf -
Living Shariah
If a person has the problem of masturbating
daily, what should he do in Ramadaan?
Praise be to Allaah.
The correct scholarly view is that masturbation is
haraam. For more information please see the answer to
question no. 329.
With regard to the rulings concerning the daytime in
Ramadaan, please see the answer to question no. 38074.
Young men have to fear Allaah their Lord, and keep
away from listening to or looking at the things that
will provoke their desire. They should make the most
of Ramadaan to discipline themselves, for this is the
month of the Qur’an and the month of piety. It is not
befitting for a Muslim to fail to make the most of
this month to forsake forbidden desires and seek
reward, fearing his Lord. Allaah says of the fasting
person in a hadeeth qudsi: “He forsakes his food, his
drink and his desires for My sake.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari,
1894; Muslim, 1151.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen said:
One should be patient in avoiding masturbation,
because it is haraam as Allaah says (interpretation of
the meaning):
“And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private
parts, from illegal sexual acts)
6. Except from their wives or (the slaves) that their
right hands possess, for then, they are free from
blame;
7. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the
transgressors”
[al-Mu’minoon 23:5-7]
And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: “O young men, whoever among you can afford
to get married, let him do so, for it is more
effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one’s
chastity. And whoever cannot afford that should fast.”
If masturbation were permissible, the Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would have told
them to do it, because it is easier and because people
find pleasure in it, unlike fasting which is
difficult. Because the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) enjoined fasting instead, this
indicates that masturbation is not permissible.
Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 19.189.
You should try hard to get married so that you can
give up this bad habit. Seek the help of your Lord by
praying to Him and obeying Him, so that you can rid
yourself of this sinful habit.
We ask Allaah to purify your heart and protect you
from sin, and to help you to do that which He loves
and which pleases Him.
And Allaah knows best.
Ramadan Team
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